You Didn't Vote for Him, but You Helped Him Win
TL;DR: a slice of the people that did not vote Trump hold perhaps more blame for what is going on.
The geopolitical situation right now is absurd.
The U.S., after being the world police for 75 years, have decided to demand territory from their allies on the pretext that they need such territory for defense, despite the fact that they have free rein to set up whatever bases and equipment they want in Greenland already.
The 'not my president' fallacy
What I really want to talk about though, is that many US citizens are now flooding the net with their "not my president". There is a heavy implication that this is not their fault. They did not vote for Trump.
Many of the people that did not vote for trump hold as much blame as people that did vote for him. Bear with me.
The absolute failure of the Democratic Party
MAGA is not 50%+ of the voting population in the US (at most, it was 60% of Republicans). So MAGA alone could not have gotten to elect Trump.
The democrat party's own campaigns rode the polarisation wave rather than pushing for sensible positions against the absurdity and demagoguery of Trump [source].
Kamala Harris was widely disliked well before the elections, by Democrats too [source]. Despite this fact, she was picked artificially; without a primary vote within the party [source].
By polarising the discussion, by dehumanising MAGA, promoting woke policies and by just going along with Kamala Harris being their candidate not only allowed trump to succeed but pushed otherwise center leaning people to vote for Trump too.
If you have called people idiots over their political views, you are part of the problem
People who scream obscenities to republicans are to blame just as much as republicans for this mess.
People on the left who are still screaming obscenities and cheering at people getting shot are even more to blame for this mess.
Stop blaming everyone else but yourself and look for the blame (not the whole blame, but definitely a considerable amount) within.